I have an appointment with the Doctor tomorrow, it was my mistake that I didn't share these with my wife, she had her own plans for tomorrow, which messed up my doctors appointment, she had to go somewhere, which is very important for her, since she don't have a car, I have to drop her there, I called the doctor and sorry for not able to come, and to reschedule my appointment, for time being I hold a grudge against my wife.
later we have understanding among us that we don't make up any plan without discussing each other in future.
I learned a lesson from this situation that always discuss with the family "not all" but the important issues.